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March 23 2017

March 22 2017

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I’ma send her an offering.

Thank you! I always thought that glo up on your ex so they see what they’re missing or person that did you dirty, instead of just doing it just for you is wild corny. Like you might as well day you lowkey miss them and want them to still accept you in some form. When you really just need to move on.

Just change my whole mindset


andy samberg being almost 40 is proof that when white people stay in they lane they get the gift of not aging at the speed of light

Do not allow him to consume you. If he does not call, go to sleep. If he does not message, put your phone away and have a fantastic day anyway. If he acts distant when you are with him and refuses to tell you what is wrong, don’t wait for him, go home and do something you love. If he tries to insinuate you do not need your friends now that you have him, spend more time with your friends. If he tries to teach you a lesson through the silent treatment, ignore him completely.
If he plays with your feelings constantly, walk away from him. If he acts like your body is his entitlement when you are not ready, walk away from him. If he says terrible, unforgivable things and threatens to leave you after every argument, walk away from him. If he forbids you from doing anything you love, walk away from him. If he claims ownership of your accomplishments, walk away from him. If he demeans you or disrespects your being a girl and refuses to stop when you tell him it hurts, walk away from him.

I cannot stress this enough, you live for yourself first. He is a secondary character in the story of your life. Do not allow him to turn you into a secondary character in your own book

Nikita Gill, Advice for Teenage Girls Finding Their Way Through Love
(via wnq-writers)

March 21 2017

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when your dick looks good in sweats but your ass looks good in jeans

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“I dont care what your gender is”

I care about your gender and I respect it.

“I dont care if you’re black yellow green pink”

I recognize your race, and your ethnicity, and I respect them to my fullest capability

March 20 2017



skinny ppl: *see their body type represented in every form of media as an ideal, are statistically paid and treated better than fat ppl, have nearly all clothes catered to their body types and the freedom to put considerably less time into presentation to still be deemed conventionally attractive*
fat person: i can think of maybe 3 fat characters painted in a positive light and none of them are intended to be understood as attractive. i cant eat in public without being harassed. my doctor refuses to give me actual medical care for weight unrelated issues because all they will tell me is to lose weight. i get attacked for being confident in my appearance.  
skinny ppl: UM EVERYONE IS BODY SHAMED ?????????? IVE BEEN CALLED UGLY?????????????

skinny ppl @ this post: 

March 19 2017

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Love the new bitmoji add-on

March 18 2017




Pet peeve: People who yelled at you and made you angry but try to joke with you a few minutes later because they can’t stand the atmosphere they created

Did you mean: parents


March 16 2017

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Pornhub just launched a surprising new site




For a growing number of American kids, porn is their sex ed.  Now Pornhub is hoping to offer their audience some more formal lessons in how to be a healthy and happy sexual being.

On Wednesday, the massive adult entertainment destination took the somewhat surprising step of launching the “Pornhub Sexual Health Center.”  They’re hoping the free sub-site will become a go-to resource for some of their 70 million daily users on all manner of topics, including STIs, sexual safety and how to manage relationships.

They’ve chosen Dr. Laurie Betito, a renowned sex therapist, to direct the site and they’ll also be working with a number of doctors, therapists and other experts to offer advice and answer questions.  Corey Price, Pornhub’s Vice President, told Mashable, “Our goal is to provide our visitors with a site that has credible and insightful information, rather than have them scouring the internet.”

While it’s a database they’ll build up over time, a first look reveals they’ve started with the fundamentals — with answers to things like “Babies. Where do they come from?” and “Are there really three holes?”  These might seems almost laughably basic to adult consumers of hardcore porn, but there are a lot of young people for whom these are very real questions.

Price told Mashable they weren’t aiming the content specifically at beginners.  He said they simply want to appeal to “those who are looking for trustworthy sex tips and health advice provided by experts.”  But it seems like they realize this could prove to be an especially valuable resource for their younger audience, who most likely isn’t getting comprehensive (much less sex-positive) sex ed in schools.

There are, of course, plenty of online sexual health and education resources, but for many kids, landing on sites like Pornhub is already their way into learning about sex.  Porn can obviously teach you plenty about the basics and mechanics of intercourse, but there’s a whole range of other things — biology, health, consent, relating to intimate partners, just to name a few — that you won’t pick up from watching videos like “Big tits round asses” or “Sloppy throat games.”

So if they can slide their curious audience over to the PSHC while they’re already on the site, it could function as pretty useful one-stop shop for filling in the blanks left by spotty sex ed classes and the birds and bees talks given by often bewildered parents.


Holy shit their section on trans people was actually really good and not what I expected from something hosted by a porn site! If they had a containing various sexualities and whatnot as well, they’ll definitely have a good resource on their hands!

when a god damn porn site has better information about trans health than most school systems

March 15 2017


It’s genuinely amazing to me that a Mediocre White Man can spend 20 years creating shows and movies that treat bigotry as a joke, but because the motherfucker donated some money to LGBTQIA groups and stumped for Bernie, he’s hailed as a progressive.

Seth MacFarlane created shows that dealt heavily in anti-black racism, antisemitism, ableism, Ace Ventura-levels of transphobia, rampant and vicious misogyny, normalized rape culture, abuse as a joke, pedophilia as a joke, and violent Islamophobia. He actually fought really hard for a scene where Quagmire rapes Marge Simpson to be aired on live TV – FOUGHT FOR IT, TOOTH AND NAIL – and is still angry that FOX wouldn’t let him get away with it.

He taught generations of young white guys that this shit was okay to say and believe because it was “just a joke” – hell, I’ll bet there’s a good Venn diagram between Family Guy fans and Trump supporters – and anyone who criticized him was just some boring, humorless PC police asshole.

And now people want to call his poorly-written, aggressively bigoted shit “satire” and give him brownie points for *appearing* progressive instead of actually being progressive.

Like, please demand more from your progressive allies than some fucking rich, white jackass who screams “Bigotry is cool! (Kidding)” in all his work, and does the bare fucking minimum every few years to be progressive.

Stunning photos of 'Caramel Curves,' the all-female motorcycle club that rules the streets of New Orleans



Founded in 2005, the all-female motorcycle club meets every Sunday to cruise through the streets of New Orleans and share in the sisterhood of partaking in what is often a male-dominated arena.

“The motorcycle and MC [motorcycle club] world is very male-dominated, so to be African American and be a woman involved in this predominantly male world was also really fascinating.”

the contrast between their glamorous looks and gritty bikes sets them apart from other riders.

“Watching them dressed so feminine, and then being on these really masculine machines and being able to control them and do tricks on them, is visually stunning,” she said.

That is so damn badass! I’m in love!!!!!!

i’m obsessed with the idea of all black girl gangs.

Black women helping, fighting for and supporting other black women is what we need.


Wow. This is the coolest thing I’ve seen in awhile.

March 14 2017

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The continually inspiring magic of HRT. Live your truth!

This makes me so fucking happy

Bless em!! Major support for brave trans sisters.


Trans girls are magic, pass it on.

March 13 2017



Why do men always have to act like they gotta teach you shit… like?? I don’t know who fuckin asked you but it sure wasn’t me so keep your motivation speeches to yourself

every interaction with a man is a combination TED Talk, valedictorian speech, personal training session, and getting grounded by your dad 






Shout out to the Black women doing the emotional labor, the housework, the childcare, and cooking, that actually makes the world go round.❤️

Call a Black woman up, tell her what she means to you. Buy some dinner. Get some nails done. Oil a scalp. Sing Cater2U. Bring icecream

Black women have always transcended the norms & structures of society to sustain and protect their families. 

Shout out to the Black women who build family structures that aren’t validated by this anti-Black misogynist cis hetero patriarchal society.

Black women work to build our families and to be providers alongside men, despite the constant threat of white supremacy and patriarchy.

reblog the fuck out of this 



Black women are fierce, ma 😘☺️


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Just a little reminder that bigger bodies are just as valid as smaller ones. You don’t need to justify your existence to anyone or how your body looks to anyone. You’re allowed to be happy with your body and your life at any size. I was reading this morning that Nike released a plus sized collection for bigger ladies that I think is fantastic! While I don’t like labelling my owning body plus sized for my own mental health (it’s still an unrealistic label for me sadly) it’s great that brands, especially fitness brands are being more size inclusive. Prepping to get back to the gym after my holiday I’ve been rather upset to find most mainstream “fitness” brand stores I used to buy from when I was a gym rat don’t stock tights that will accomodate my bigger butt and tummy. It hit my self esteem pretty bad. But then to learn the women who modelled this campaign were fat shamed by trolls online under the guise of “health”. Anyone who fat shames a stranger doesn’t give a shit about their health. It’s a size thing. Please try and remember that your body doesn’t define your worth. Whether you’re big or little. Super pale or are a person of colour. Tall or short. Able bodied or disabled. As well as transgender. Your body is valid. You are valid. There will always be negative people. Please just remember you don’t have to carry or take their baggage on yourself. Let them carry it on their own and focus on putting energy to the positive in your life ❤❤
#missi #bodypositive #curvy #curves #selflove #screwthehaters #fatshamingisstupid #youarevalid #effyourbeautystandards

March 12 2017

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please get on this! Protect Black Girls! We as community have to look after each other. 

She said that she was at a hotel in LA. People on Twitter were able to track her IP address and later found out that she was/is in Mountain View, CA. She has not responded/posted on Snapchat in a couple of hours. She said there’s two guys there, one who goes by the name of Tank. They’re black, taller than her (like 6 foot or something) and wearing white and gray. This is a picture of one of the men  She sent it to someone who messaged her.



Please find her and get her home safe!


So I added her this morning (6:55am) March 10, and replied to her story. I wrote “oh wow you have a popsocket on your phone! I have one too!” And she replied “popsockers”. Then I said “I heard you say you’re in LA! I grew up here; how long are you here for?” And she hasn’t messaged back since. It’s now 7:24am. This story is making me uneasy

Kennedi Simone High


Case Type: Disability (Autistic)
DOB: Nov 28, 2000
Missing Date: Mar 08, 2017
Age Now: 16
Missing City: Baltimore
Missing State: MD
Case Number: 5170303296

Gender: Female
Race: Black
Complexion: Light
Height: 5-7
Weight: 120
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Brown
Wear Glasses or Contacts: Yes

Location Last Seen: Kennedi was last seen leaving Western High School.

Circumstances of Disappearance: Unknown.

Last Seen Wearing: Blk pants, blk low cut Ugg boots, white shirt.



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